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    August 01

    把爱情储蓄起来 ZT

     
           “你问我为什么说婚姻是爱情的坟墓呢。我认为是结婚以后,爱就像启了封的酒,由醉人的浓味渐渐地变为淡水的味道,又因为油盐酱醋把两人的心腌得五味俱全,并不像恋爱时那样全是甜味。有一位哲人说:爱情要延缓给予,然后去丰富两人共享的世界。人们在吃饱穿暖之余,知道了要储蓄银两,以便在需要的时候支取它。富余的钱可以存在银行里,以备需要的时候用。可是你知道吗?爱情也可以储蓄。”
     

           “爱情也能储蓄?有利息吗?” 

           “能,当然能。爱情,同样需要储蓄。有时候婚姻中的男女在热恋时期就已将爱情透支了,婚后又不注意重新投入,于是埋怨婚姻成了爱情的坟墓。长此以往,恶意透支,你面对的就是一本坏账。储蓄爱情,就是在大悲大喜的激情之余,更多地给对方一点细心的呵护。不一定要你赴汤蹈火、两肋插刀,但一定得靠真心的投入才能立上账户。比如,在雨天给她打一把伞,而自己的半个肩头却在外面淋得透湿;比如,每天早晨起来为他煮好一杯牛奶,端到他的床头;比如,夜里在他工作到很晚的时候悄悄为他披一件御寒的衣服。爱情储蓄的结果是幸福的,但过程却是十分艰苦的。试想,婚姻中一对陌路相逢的男女,要在同一屋檐下风风雨雨几十年,需要储蓄多少宽容、多少理解。

           “储蓄爱情的过程,其实也是真正考验两个人爱情忠贞与否的过程。不是靠当事人来考验,而是靠生活来考验。在储蓄爱情的过程中,有些人终于忍耐不住了,露了原形。有些人在平淡如水的日常生活里却打磨出金灿灿的光圈,让我们体会到安静的外表下一颗充满了爱与柔情的心灵。”

           “储蓄了的爱情确实是一笔极其丰厚的存款,当你享有这笔存款的时候,就如同享用风雪中的一盆火、阴晦中的一缕阳光。患病时的一句关爱的话语,彷徨时的一番温柔的鼓励……就好像你平时不经意地把手头的几枚硬币随手放进储蓄罐,某一天真正需要的时候该是多么的意外和惊喜。”

     

     

     

      

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    春晖 周wrote:
    找到你的银行储蓄爱情了吗?
    Aug. 1

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